“Most of the time, we make a big deal out of petty things and fight. Sometimes, we let our ego win instead of apologizing. Oftentimes, we hurt the ones we love and who love us the most and realizing only what is worthy when it’s already gone.”
Best Emotional Break Up Letter to Boyfriend
Perhaps, leaving you is the best thing to do. I couldn’t imagine a life without you but I know that if I will not walk away from you right now, I might get stuck here forever. And I could no longer let you break me and tear me into pieces like I’m a wine glass that you sip when I’m full and throw me away when I’m empty.
How could you possibly do that to me? I have given you everything that I have. I have done everything for you, even the things that you didn’t ask. I have willingly given my whole life to you but why did you do that to me?
I never asked for anything other than you staying faithful to me. Why did you do it? The most decent thing you should have done was to be honest. I know you’re thinking that you don’t want to hurt me. Of course it will, you know that. You just really don’t have the courage to tell me the truth because you’re a coward.
You chose to lie so I won’t get hurt? What the hell were you thinking? If you don’t love me anymore, if you feel you were falling out of love, you should have just told me. Yes, right to my face. It will hurt me so badly but there’s nothing more painful than what you have done.
You should have just told me that you’re in love with my best friend. I might accept the truth gracefully than you two betraying me, screwing things behind my back.
Do you know how I feel exactly right now? It feels like you stabbed me in the back and my best friend just thrusts the knife deeper into my spine that I can never move again. That’s how I feel right now.
I don’t know how I can move on from this. I lost two of the most important persons in my life. I’m not only breaking up with you. I’m also breaking up with my best friend. And it hurts so much to leave you two but I know that this is the right thing to do.
I’m done with all your crap. I’m done forgiving you. I’m done giving you another chance. Have the decency to walk away and never bother me again.
And please don’t say you’re sorry. Don’t say you didn’t intend to hurt me because the moment you laid your eyes on my best friend and felt something different and did things that lead us to this, you know you’re not sorry. It was your decision to cheat on me. So you suffer the consequences of what you’ve done.
Don’t ask for my forgiveness. I don’t know when I can forgive you for what you’ve done. As long as I can’t forgive myself for falling into your trap, as long as I can’t forgive myself for allowing you to hurt me, I know I can’t forgive you.
Please don’t beg for me to stay and give you another chance because I’m done with you. The moment you cheated on me, you know that you already lost me. You may have realized my worth now. You may have known how much you love me now. I’m so sorry but it’s already too late.
I can’t go on with our relationship knowing at the back of my head that you might do it again. I’m afraid to love you again in as much as I’m afraid that you will hurt me once again.
I’m sorry but I have to go. I am moving on with my life because I deserve a love that gives me peace of mind. I deserve a love that will give me the serenity of my soul. I deserve a love that makes me sleep at night with tranquility knowing that the man who says he loves me will spend the rest of his life proving it to me.
It pains me to realize that you are no longer that man. You are no longer the man that I loved. I honestly don’t know you anymore. What hurts me the most is the fact that you are no longer mine. But I’d rather lose you than to have you but your heart and mind is with someone else.
It saddens me that I have to start all over again and I don’t know where to start. My heart is too broken that I don’t know how I could possibly pick up all the pieces and heal myself.
But I know I can do this. I’m standing tall and I’m going to be okay. I know you’ll be fine too. And good luck to both of you.